I recently asked what really bugged you when it came to dealing with friends and maintaining friendships, and several of you responded with comments that I'm sure we all can relate to.
One reader said that when a friend didn't reciprocate kindness, it was a letdown. Another person said, "People who lack tact or think everything is about them really annoy me. Usually they are not used to playing as a team so they are a little abrasive. If someone calls you and is very blunt or only wants you around when it's convenient for them is a real downer."
Very true. I think being disappointed by a friend's lack up support is a common feeling. There could be many reasons why a friend isn't happy for you or fails to come to your aid. Maybe they are going through a rough time themselves, or perhaps they aren't really getting the fact that you need them. Then again, maybe they are selfish. Only you can decide that, and it's really hard to take a step back sometimes and determine what the real issue is.
What's your friendship frustration? Share it with us.
